The events of this story make it easy to see what kind of child Jesus was.
I doubt that Mary and Joseph were negligent parents, but how could they not notice that Jesus wasn’t with them? They obviously didn’t worry about him sneaking off, or getting distracted and wandering away. It almost sounds like they took him for granted, until needed.
Caught up in the excitement and the company of the people, quite probably rushing to leave, they didn’t realize that Jesus had stayed behind. Evidently they trusted him; he had never given them cause to worry, and they assumed he was with the other kids. When they began to set up camp that evening, he wasn’t there helping as usual, and they began looking for him.
Imagine how they must have berated themselves, and perhaps each other, for not noticing, not checking, for assuming he would take care of himself. I’m sure evil whisperings reminded them of how Herod had tried to kill him as an infant. Loaded with guilt and fear they turned back to Jerusalem. Praying, they retraced a whole days steps, much of it in the dark.
Poor parents! I don’t suppose they slept much that night or the next.
Luke 2:43-45
